Attraction, attachment and pairbonding 0.0 / 5 ? PsychologypsychologyUniversityNone Created by: mac123!Created on: 12-11-17 10:18 4 things that attract us to people proximity, familiarity, reciprocity and similarity 1 of 27 proximity Bossard- who married who 2 of 27 familiarity Myers- meeting frequently, mere exposure effect women in the lectures 3 of 27 similarity perceived similarity that matters 4 of 27 reciprocity like people who like us 5 of 27 opposites attract and fatal attraction opposites can be good such as submission and domination, but some qualities can have different meanings over time such as funniness being imature 6 of 27 Bridge study Dutton and Aron woman on high suspension bridge rang more 7 of 27 3 universal mate criterea kindness, loyalty and emotional stability 8 of 27 men look for.. youth and physical attractiveness 9 of 27 women look for.. status and resource acquisition 10 of 27 Evolutionary approach- women and sex women have sex to have baby, have to be picky 11 of 27 Evolutionary approach- men and sex less fussy, can have thousands of offspring 12 of 27 Power of male wealth- money men with power can exchange their wives for younger people (serial monogaymy) 13 of 27 power of male wealth- poor leads to them being at the bottom of the dating pool- lonely- potential suicide 14 of 27 motivations of pair bonding emotions 15 of 27 love keeps us alive babies survive on getting people to love them- children in orphanages have stunted physical and emotional growth 16 of 27 Harlows monkeys monkeys prefer cloth and no food to wire and food 17 of 27 detachment Protest, despair, detach- 'shut down' 18 of 27 secure attachment longer stable relationships, high trust/ friendships, high regard for self and others, unafraid of emotional intimacy 19 of 27 insecure attachment crave relationships, jealous, vigilent, fearful of abandonment 20 of 27 avoidance attachment rely on yourself, high rates of realtionship breakdown, use work as substitute for trlationship 21 of 27 companionate love affection we feel for those with whom are lives are intertwined 'settled domestic people' 22 of 27 hormonal influences oxytocin and endorphins 23 of 27 Social cognitive model of love Sternberg's triangular 24 of 27 Intimacy (liking) and commitment (empty love) companionate love 25 of 27 intimacy (liking) and passion (infatuation) Romantic love 26 of 27 passion (intimacy) and commitment (empty love) Fatuous love 27 of 27
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