men grow up in a world where conversation is competitive, they seek the upper hand and try to dominate and prevent others from dominating them.
A place where people gain status and try to keep it
women engage in communication to create relationships and maintain them, they gain confirmation and support and seek connection
they see the world as a network of connections seeking support and consensus
men seek conflict, act as passive listeners, do not ask as many questions as they see it as a weakness, are concerned with status and focus on doing things independently
women talk in private, ask questions to find out more and build a relationship, run from conflict and think in terms of closeness and support
e.g. a woman might check with her husband to have a guest stay over as she likes being able to say she had to ask him whereas the husband may not ask his wife first because telling the friend he has to check with his wife would result in a loss of status and dominance
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