Lee’s stage model (1984) was developed using a questionnaire to investigate personal experiences of over 100 students. She concluded that there were five distinct stages in the process of break-up. These are; Dissatisfaction (one or both partners recognises problems), Exposure (problems are brought out into the open), Negotiating (attempting to resolve problems by discussing issues raised), Resolution (partners try to resolve problems) and Termination.
Lee found that the exposure and negotiating stage were the most exhausting, and that not all couples go through all five stages. Those who went straight from the dissatisfaction stage to the termination stage reported having felt less intimate with their partners, and those whose journey from Dissatisfaction to Termination was particularly protracted reported feeling more attraction towards their former partner and more loneliness. Lee’s stage model has the advantage that it was based on over 100 real life experiences, and has practical applications in marriage counselling. It is alike Duck’s model in the sense that it lacks explanation, giving no reason behind stages but simply describing them. They both ignore the differences of understudied relationships such as homosexual relationships and collectivist relationships.
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