the first stage of the model. the partner dwells on the negatives of the relationship but may only share them with a trusted friend. "I can't stand this anymore"
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the second stage of the model. the partners talk about their thoughts and feelings, this is where they will discover whether they want the relationship to continue or not. "I would be justified in withdrawing"
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the third stage of the model. the partners now share the breakdown of their relationship with their friends and family, mutual friends will often have to pick a side to avoid arguments "I mean it"
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the final stage of the model. the partners both move on from the breakup and start to make new relationships. " its now inevitable"
