4. Thomas, 2 yrs 4 months - 10 days in Foster Care:
- Being older he can keep his absent mother in his mind and talk about her. This, with daily visits from his Dad, help him understand the situation in way younger ones do not.
- In need of mothering care, Thomas cannot always accept this intimacy because the affecttionate feelings it arouses conflict with loyalty to his mother. He sometimes attacks the foster mother when she gives him the attention he seeks.
- At reunion, unlike younger children, Thomas has no problem leaving foster mum.
5. Kate, 2 yrs 5 months - 27 days in Foster Care:
- Like Thomas, Kate can hold onto the memory of her Mum.
- She uses a family of dolls to recall life at home and to anticipate reunion with her parents.
- But as separation extends, disillusion sets in.
- Increasingly cool towards visiting Dad, expresses anger towards her mother and begins to make a niche for herself in foster family.
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