As we grow up the influence of our parent's decrease, but the influence of our peers (e.g. friends) increases, as we rely on them more for support. Peers help us to become independent and develop social skills. Blos (1967) suggests that peers offer a 'way station' on the route to individuation and separation.
Nangle et al (2003) argues adolescent friendships are a way to develop and improve emotional and intimacy relationships, different from those we experience with our parents.
Peers replace parents as the primary basis for support, while the adult world is explore. These relationships usually involve affection, a sense of intimacy and sharing secrets. A close friend provides that feeling of trust, acceptance and being accepted, qualities that are needed in future romantic relationships.
Kircher et al (1993) argues that those who don't develop peer relationships, but stay attached to their parents would have trouble developing relationships later.
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