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Emotional Positives for child in a supportive relationship with parent.

• Secure
• Safe
• Loved
• Wanted
• Valued
• Appreciated
• Has high self esteem

Physical positives for child in a supportive relationship with parent

• Given nutritious food so they can grow
• Have lots of energy
• learn new skills e.g. riding a bike

Intellectual positives for child in a supportive relationship with parent

• Listened to
• spoken to
• good communication skills
• Read to
• Helped with homework
• Likely to not be behind at school

Social Positives for child in a supportive relationship with parent.

• confident
• trusted
• trusting of others
• forms friends
• good social skills

Emotional Negatives of being in an unhappy marriage.

• tired
• drained
• stressed
• upset
• happy
• no love in relationship
• negative effect on self esteem
• sense of failure
• loss of confidence

Intellectual relationships of being in an unhappy marriage.

• hard to concentrate at work

Physical negatives of being in an unhappy relationship.

• may comfort eat
• may not eat
• stop leisure activities because depressed
• doesn't want to leave house
• Person may increase alcohol intake 

Social negatives of being in an unhappy marrige

• Relationship will feel less strong
• Lose confidence
• afraid of rejection of failure

Intellectual negatives from not getting on with manager.

• May not learn new skills from manager
• May not ask for help from manager
• Stress

Emotional Negatives from not getting on with manager.

• Upset
• Angry
• Tired
• Stressed
• Depressed 
• Low self esteem
• Frustrated

Social negatives from not getting on with manager

• Might not attend work
• not earn money to go out with friends
• Lose social contacts
• Strain on relationships
• Excluded socially at work
• Not supported by colleagues

Physical negatives of not getting on with Manager.

• Comfort eat
• not eat
• Alcohol
• Drugs
• Tobacco 

Financial Abuse

• Taking a persons money away from them, making a person ask for money
• Making a person say how they spend every single penny
• Not allowing them to work and earn money
• Having all bills in the persons name, having all bank accounts in the abusers name
• making all decisions when deciding what to buy and when to buy
• giving a person a small amount of money to manage and then criticising them for not managing to buy essentials with it

Threats

• Making a person afraid but using looks and gestures
• saying they'll hurt them or kill them or someone precious to them or the family pet
• threatening to smash things
• threatening to tell other people how bad/stupid they are

Sexual Abuse

• Making somebody do sexual things that they don't want to do
• calling the person a ****
• not allowing the person to dress in the ay they want to or only in the way the abuser wants them too

Physical Abuse

• Hitting, pushing, punching, kicking
• biting, slapping, hair pulling
• throwing or smashing things
• punching the wall, smashing the window
• burning, strangling, stabbing, murder

Emotional Abuse.

• Constantly putting the person dow, making the person feel bad about themselves-insulting them by calling them fat, ugly, stupid, a bad parent,undermining them
• Checking up on where they are and what they are doing, timing a person when they go out, making them explain every moment
• always lying to them, ignoring them, withholding affection.
• threatening to leave, threatening to throw them out, threatening to commit suicide if they leave.

Isolation

• Stopping someone from seeing their friends and family, not allowing the person to have visitors
• stopping them from having a job, not allowing the person to learn to drive
• going everywhere with them
• locking them in the house, not allowing phone calls
• not allowing the person from learning the native language and always speaking for them.