How can i show people the real me??

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I am a funny, enthusiastic, loud, fun, intelligent girl but i don't know why, at school, i am really quiet for some reason i don't know why, i don't like to answer questions in class and i want people to know what the real me is like. i know that this isn't really related to exams or anything but i wanted the advise of real students!! so any advise would be much appreiated...how do i stop being so shy at school and be the real me??

:)

Posted Sat 9th June, 2012 @ 18:35 by Miss-know-it-all <3

9 Answers

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might be a bit obvious but be yourself!?

Answered Sat 9th June, 2012 @ 18:43 by anonymous
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I know it's harder than it sounds but be yourself . as a good friend once told me- "forget finding yourself, create yourself! Your one in a bazilion, be unforgetable."

Answered Sat 9th June, 2012 @ 22:12 by Thegirlwhoknewtoomuch - Team GR
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i actually was like you, a lot like you to be honest. in year 7 i was the only person from my primary school there... i used to be like the girl, who actually noone noticed. i know exactly how it feels. but i changed. instead of just standing alone somewhere in school, i started talking to a few people, introducing myslef and asking them about their past ect. and just keep going and talking to them, slowly ull be comfy with them and ull automatically start showing them the real you :) happend with me, i was afraid to show the real me.. but now, i mix in with everyone, i talk to them and have fun :D

You all should actually embrace ur awesomeness, stand up for who you really are : dont let anyone bring you down, its YOU and noone can change that :)

Answered Sat 9th June, 2012 @ 19:07 by priya777
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lool ^^ as simple as daah.. be yurr help NO matter how weird or crazyyy! Even if yuee aint popular be the real yue wid tha ppl yue luv.. better tuu hav a few frwnds hu luv yue for huu yue are and loadzz fake onees! Just be yueeeeeeeee < as yue probz noticed im weird buhh heeeyy ppl still luv me soo BE WHO YUE ARE -**-

Answered Sat 9th June, 2012 @ 18:46 by в
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- Miss-know-it-all <3- yuee SOUND EXACTLY LYKE ME! luvly... just be yueeeeee.. nothing, no disguse cn be better than yuee. Pppl myt not lyke yuee BUT DNT CHANGE FOR ANYONE.. I'm lyke yuee soo shyy! No popular ppl talk tu me buhh yue nooe wahh.. it doesnt matter.. I hav frwnd hu luve me for me.. and thats all that matter.. so dnt waste tyme searching how to be more confident< I did.. buhh i only became confident when I realise who I was and where I stand, and who I stand with! 

Hope this helps!

Answered Sat 9th June, 2012 @ 18:50 by в
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When i moved to secondary school, i tried to keep my old friends and started changing for them, but when i found my new friends and they liked me for who i am i became much happier. Also weird as it may seem you'll discover loads of people like you. I found this out as i stood down. Talk to people about things you are interested in. I they don't like that then they aren't worth knowing.

Hope that helps

Answered Sat 9th June, 2012 @ 19:00 by Maddie
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When I started secondary school, I found it hard to adjust. Up until year 9, I realised I was friends with the wrong people - I was often quiet, left out. I've always been shy, however, I've found some really great friends as my high school years progressed, and I've let myself out slowly. Turns out that I'm more socially awkward than ever, but I can talk and interact more with all people. I'm finishing year 11 soon, and I know that I've made some really great friends. 

You should be yourself instead of pretending. I've learnt that for the better. (: Sooner or later, you'll start feeling comfortable in your own skin and show the real you. 

Answered Sat 9th June, 2012 @ 19:11 by Iqra H
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Wow thanks everybody you guys really helped, with my close group of friends i do act like my self its just with the rest of the class which is the problem....

Thanks again !!  <3 <3

Answered Mon 27th August, 2012 @ 22:27 by Miss-know-it-all <3
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If there are people like 'the real you', try and talk to them, if not you'll have to create a new you to fit in with them maybe.. unless they accept you for being you. If they don't acceot you for being you, you may have to change what you do a little bit.. if you're into really weird things though, i wouldn't tell people that for a while.. just be the person society wants you to be. Thats usually how it ends these days.

Answered Mon 11th June, 2012 @ 14:11 by Brittany Yeo