Hey i know exactly how you feel!! I've got the same topic and board too! So i'm lokking for some A* notes too - thanks for posting this! All i can help with is that the Phillip Allan Literature Revision guide on AQA Anthology Moon on the Tides Conflict and Relationships we were given is really useful and quite good at pointing out important bits and showing themes.
It also has a sectioning at the back about how to compare poems and a plan of how to write a comparison. As well as showing AOs and has sample essays so yeah try it coz it's pretty good. Recommend it!